With that explanation, I launched into the pages of Book Smart
I'm pretty certain of my own mind and opinions, with few exceptions. (Which is not to say that I'm not open to hear other people's perspectives, but simply to say that I don't verbally process all of my decisions with other people and don't always feel the need for validation.) If I want to teach my kids about some topic that is not very familiar to me, I will research the web, ask specific people for advice when I'm fairly certain they have some to give, read books, watch videos and try to catch a clue for myself. In the case of reading though, I don't much speculate upon my ability to help my kids learn to love it. We read books together all of the time. There are books all over our house - in every nook and cranny. (Some might say it's "clutter" but I say it's "knowledge" and an assortment of other things.) From the time my babies were placed in my arms I was flipping through picture books with them. (Well, that's a slight exaggeration. First I woke up from newborn delirium and then we started flipping through books together.) My first memories of my oldest are of our quiet cuddly times wherein we would read books and then doze off into naptime (yay!). And, of course, I talked to him all the time because he was everything there was and not many other distractions.
By the time my second arrived - age 9 months when we welcomed him home - he had clearly never been read a book before in his life! There was a time when I admit that I despaired he would ever love to read. Our local librarian gave me great comfort when she told me that just putting books into his hands was likely to do the trick as he would learn to turn pages and look at pictures that way. She said it didn't matter if a book were upside down or even if they were chewed on - just put the books in hands. One of his favorite things to do now (at age 5) is to look through books and read them with his sister. Speaking of the sister, she also had a hard time sitting still to gaze upon the glorious Roger Priddy Happy Baby Books. I didn't panic over her though because I'd already been through Book Disregard from one wiggly baby. I figured, in time, surrounded by books, she would be forced to pick one up. She did and she does and we read together often.
We read together because I love it. And now we also read together because they love it. I can sort of see how Book Smart
I guess what I'm saying is - those who love to read are already set up and designed to automatically do everything in their power to make their children readers. We readers know the value of story and so we try to find ways to communicate with our kids through the written word. Even reading parents with reluctant readers seek out words and stories with which they entice their children into books. We seek out books that they will delight in and we encourage them in their own particular interests. Frequently this works to great a new reader. To me, Book Smart
My general opinion explained, Book Smart
I do hope my kids continue to love books. I'll do everything that I practically can to help them find delight in the written word. why? What is my ultimate reason? Because God gave us His written word so that we might know Him. I want them to find Him in the Word.
Developing a love of words, love of knowledge and a delight in truth and beauty is a worthwhile goal and I delight in it! I might even say that it's my favorite aspect of parenting.
Although I cannot say that I love this book as being Beyond Valuable I did find it curious and encouraging in spots. I leave it to you to figure out if you would find it useful. You might!
Many thanks to Oxford University Press for sending a copy of this book my direction in order to facilitate this review. I received no additional compensation and all opinions are 100% my own.
2 comments:
It does sounds like a lot of common sense. I can see someone picking this up who had a child who didn't seem to like to read but hadn't received the great advice you had gotten and were worried about it.
All of mine loved to read when they were little: only one is an avid reader now, but one has come around a bit more in adulthood. I have high hopes for the last one. :-)
My husband and are both readers and my kids on a path, so it seems to be so also.
But I work with 2 children from a family who spend all of their time on the iPad, with video games or watching tv. I can't convince the mom that to have children become readers they have to be read to and also read themselves. I fear that these kids, age 9 and 12 and both struggling readers may not be able to become readers. Do you think this book might help her? Have you read the Read Aloud Handbook? That book comes to mind too...
Thanks!
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