tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post1709057868122728175..comments2024-02-11T10:58:23.271-08:00Comments on Reading to Know: Just a Minute, by Wess StaffordCarriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08772667430500306088noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-56182826307575756392012-03-13T11:38:10.699-07:002012-03-13T11:38:10.699-07:00Many of the most important moments with my kids ha...Many of the most important moments with my kids have come out of the blue. Unexpectedly, at a time I would not have planned it. (That's my take on the whole "quality time" meme.) <br />You know I plan crazy stuff to do with my kids, but we also just spend time doing housework, yardwork, and just being together. I guarantee you my parenting looks completely different than the standard narrative - because the kids and I just do what we do our way, the way it works for us.Diary of an Autodidacthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11849157548643091986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-72968209894992723352012-03-13T07:31:59.050-07:002012-03-13T07:31:59.050-07:00This one sounds different than what I was expectin...This one sounds different than what I was expecting. I think I'll skip it. I really don't want more guilt in parenting.<br /><br />I really like your review, though! :)Bluerosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00680170638396181756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-92188498601658724572012-03-12T13:28:27.680-07:002012-03-12T13:28:27.680-07:00This: "Some days it's not about being bri...This: "Some days it's not about being brilliant. It's just about living life together." Is brilliant. hahaha!<br /><br />I'll probably skip it, but so glad you are sponsoring! I am too. A girl from Ecuador.BerlinerinPoethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06853762912371387793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-30552346280975422792012-03-12T11:02:09.583-07:002012-03-12T11:02:09.583-07:00As a stay at home mother who is currently reading ...As a stay at home mother who is currently reading blogs while waiting out a temper tantrum, I totally get what you're saying! I could use just a minute of someone's time for a blessing right now! ;)Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08501820630628567229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-89398684052340017492012-03-12T10:54:27.971-07:002012-03-12T10:54:27.971-07:00"The whole time I was reading it, I wondered ..."The whole time I was reading it, I wondered if Stafford was a father who had to spend a consecutive 24-hours of time with his own children, because reading these stories made me feel exhausted as a mother."<br /><br />Ha, ha, boy can I ever relate to that!!Shonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04310547848215492736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-18868346266032285742012-03-12T10:10:51.348-07:002012-03-12T10:10:51.348-07:00I love Compassion and their work with and for chil...I love Compassion and their work with and for children in poverty. They are changing lives one child at a time! We sponsor 4 kids (one for each of our own) in Uganda. It would be amazing to travel their and meet them.<br /><br />I would guess that stay at home(schooling) moms are not Stafford's target audience. :)Stephanie Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02976709475515458563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-32911652838594497612012-03-12T10:03:39.709-07:002012-03-12T10:03:39.709-07:00I understand the point the author is making but yo...I understand the point the author is making but you summed up what we should do; "Some days it's not about being brilliant. It's just about living life together. And that takes more than just a minute."<br />I love that! I always tell my sweet savages that we clean the house together because we all live here and cleanliness is an important factor of life.<br /> I also like what Barbara H said about not letting a schedule get in the way of family. As mothers we DO have to get stuff done! If I don't who will? And when we are all in a routine of helping each other out and getting things done then we do have time to play! I am also a big fan of those days of throwing everything out the window and going to the zoo for the day. Every once in a while it does the heart and soul good to rebel.Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01446914963118461073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-79165013041549874772012-03-12T08:42:46.713-07:002012-03-12T08:42:46.713-07:00On the flip side -- I could tend to be so hampered...On the flip side -- I could tend to be so hampered by "what I needed to get done" that I probably could have used the reminder to stop and give the children a bit of undivided attention before moving on. Didn't mean I needed to throw my schedule to the wind and give them a whole afternoon. I tended to want to get everything done first "and THEN I'll give you some time" but sometimes they need and are happy with just a few moments in the middle of what we're doingBarbara H.http://barbarah.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-39103127528160997062012-03-12T08:37:56.915-07:002012-03-12T08:37:56.915-07:00When I first saw the title of this post, it remind...When I first saw the title of this post, it reminded me that I was afraid my first son's words were going to be "Just a minute" because I said that all the time. :-) That's one thing that's easier about having more than one -- you can send the older one to fetch a washcloth or diaper or ask him to talk to the baby while you're tossing laundry in, etc. With the first one -- they just have to learn to wait. (Maybe that's why my first one is more patient than my second one...)<br /><br />I would probably have the same reaction to this type of book. One thing that struck me about the Little House books was that Ma didn't seem to get down on the floor and play games with her children. That's not a bad thing to do -- but in that day, a lot of their family time was working together. They had times of relaxation in the evening -- the girls danced while Pa played his fiddle (and Ma sewed....poor Ma!) and they had get-togethers like the dance during the maple sugaring. But they had far less recreational time than we do now. I'm not saying we should go back to that kind of culture and schedule -- but I don't think we need to feel guilty for not coming up with new and creative ways to do things.Barbara H.http://barbarah.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31647067.post-20098931558977922182012-03-12T06:03:27.441-07:002012-03-12T06:03:27.441-07:00I love this review. From mothers everywhere, than...I love this review. From mothers everywhere, thank you. ;-)Amy @ Hope Is the Wordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07949836482747469686noreply@blogger.com