I decided to accept it for request because my prayer life has been considerably weak of late - if not frequently non-existent. I have nothing to say about that except I am in the wrong. I hoped that by reading this booklet I would be encouraged to return to prayer and make it a daily discipline once again. The book arrived and I stuck it in my suitcase to take with me and read while I was in California with family over Christmas.
As it turns out, I didn't find a single moment to crack open the pages of this book. Instead of reading, I spent my time visiting with my family - particularly with my mother-in-law. She is a prayer warrior if ever there were one. I've heard her talk of her prayer life before. I've seen her reading her Bible and journaling. I've listened to her prayers as she prays over me and over others. Perhaps because I was attuned to my own need to "get back into the game" I noticed her habit of prayer even more than I have in the past. When a situation popped up she held my hand and simply said, "We will pray." And I did. And I know she did. Her example and exhortation was worth more to me than a pile of pamphlets, even though they may be written by Martin Luther.
I love my mother-in-law because she is honest. If the picture isn't pretty, she won't tell you that it is. She does not put on any false pretenses about who she is as a Christian or where she is in her spiritual walk. She'll honestly tell you her faults and flaws, without making excuses for a single one. She does commit each fault, flaw and anything that is not Christ-minded to the Lord in prayer. She also prays for each member of our family. And I know that her prayers are answered. I know. Her spirit of humility and committment to follow Christ was a huge spiritual wake-up call to me. She exhibits the truth of what C.S. Lewis explained of prayer; it doesn't change God's mind, it changes who we are as His children. Her life is a beautiful illustration of Christ's redeeming power and being around her makes me want to know God more.
Upon my return home I pulled A Simple Way to Pray out of my suitcase. I read it and it was useful, but not as useful as a real life lived out in front of my very eyes. Within the past few weeks I have made it a daily discipline to spend time in prayer. I cannot say that I've used anything that Luther once wrote as a catalyst for this prayer journey, although there were a few things that he wrote and I noted.
First, Luther recommends that a person pray through the 10 Commandments, the Lord's Prayer and the Apostle's Creed. These things have either being given to us in scripture to memorize and live our lives by, or have been designed by church counsels (i.e., the Apostle's Creed) to establish the basics of our faith in our mind. If you don't know where to start in your prayer life, these are good places to focus. When praying these pieces of scripture (or the Creed) you are forced to think about Who God is and who You are. However, Luther is not promoting rote prayers. As you are praying using these tools which God has placed at your disposal (particularly the Lord's Prayer), he says you will find God speaking to you.
"It often happens that I get lost in right and good thoughts as they come, so that I do not even say the rest of the Lord's Prayer. When such rich thoughts come, just let other prayers go and give these thoughts plenty of room; do not in any way hinder them. For in this way the Holy Spirit is preaching to you. His sermon is better than a thousand of our prayers. Many times I have learned more in the process of praying a single prayer than I would have struggled to learn through much writing and reading." (page 13)
Being a great reader, this remark of Luther's really hit home for me. All of the books I could spend my time on could mean very little in relation to time spent with the Lord, communicating my thoughts, submitting to His perfect will. Books have great merit, yes, but they cannot replace personal time with God and I should never put them in that role. (Obviously reading is important also. How else would I have discovered that "mini sermon" of Luther's had I not read it?! Books have a place. Don't jump to any extremes!)
Secondly there was this statement:
". . . [I]t's very clear that if a person is going to do something well, it requires him to focus and concentrate, as the old saying goes: pluribus intentus minor est ad singula sensus, that is, "a person engaged in various pursuits minds none of them well." So, if this is true about other things in our life, how much more does prayer require the heart to be completely focused if it is to pray a good prayer? (page 15)
In order to benefit and profit from prayer, I recognized that I needed to give myself to it whole heartedly. Not half-hearted ("Dear Jesus, help me with ____") - although I do believe He hears and answers even those prayers. I am very good at giving him brief thoughts in prayer throughout the day, but not concentrated ones and that bears some improvement. So, that said, I've committed to praying more whole heartedly . . . giving it the time and attention that God demands, requires and expects. (For, in fact, we are told to pray.)
It's a silly thing not to spend time in concentrated prayer really - seeing as how prayer blesses and instructs in amazing ways. I'm not going to document how I've changed in great detail or anything, but I will say that I have already been blessed tremendously with a more peaceful spirit. As I have prayed, I know that I am being changed. And it is right. (Hard, but right!)
I'm grateful for this little booklet, sure. I think it is very handy and has some great thoughts to meditate on and advice to apply to one's prayer life. It's an easy read and a healthy read. But more importantly, I'm grateful to have people in my life - who God very intentionally put there - to demonstrate what it means to be a Christian and walk hard roads, graciously and gratefully, knowing that it's not about who I am but what I need. I need God.
Thanks to Concordia Publishing House for shooting a copy of this booklet my way in exchange for my honest thoughts.